My Teen Is Using ChatGPT for Homework — What Should I Do?

Almost every school policy, once you read past the headline, distinguishes between using AI to understand and using AI to produce. Asking it to re-explain a concept a different way, to generate practice questions, to check reasoning after an attempt, or to summarise a text already read — these are study techniques. Asking it to write the essay, solve the problem set, or produce the code that gets submitted is substitution, and it is the version that shows up later as a gap.

The awkward part for parents is that both look identical from the doorway. A teenager at a laptop with a chatbot open could be doing either. This is why the rule has to be about the artefact rather than the activity: what was submitted, and can they explain it?

The most durable version we have seen is: **attempt it first, then use AI to check or explain, and never submit text you did not write.** It works because each part is checkable, and because it does not require you to police the laptop. The attempt-first clause is the load-bearing one — most of the learning happens in the struggle before the answer arrives, and that is precisely what a chatbot removes if it is opened first.

Pair it with a disclosure habit: if AI was used at all, say so, in the way the school asks. This matters more than it sounds. Schools are increasingly explicit about disclosure, and a student who has been honest about using AI to understand something is in a completely different position from one who is discovered to have submitted generated text.

Watch the gap between homework marks and test marks. Homework allows AI; a supervised test does not. When a student is genuinely learning, the two track together. When AI is doing the work, homework marks stay high or rise while test performance flattens or falls — and because homework is usually the more frequent grade, the problem can run for a full term before it surfaces.

The second check costs nothing: ask them to explain a piece of submitted work, out loud, without the document. Not as an interrogation — as interest. A student who did the thinking can do this easily. A student who did not will produce a summary of the text rather than the reasoning behind it, and the difference is obvious within a minute.

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What it does not do: it does not detect AI-written homework, monitor their chatbot use, or enforce your rules. Those remain yours. We would rather say that plainly than have you buy something expecting it to solve a problem it was not built for.